allmymetaphors:

I don’t know where the line is between being manipulative and just being expressive like… if I express my sadness am I guilting people? since I cry easily when I feel hurt, even if my hurt isn’t always valid, am I being emotionally abusive? I never know if I’m being alright when I try to change someone’s mind or like convince them to do something??? is it okay to try and convince someone to be more serious about you or like more committed to you or whatever? if you’re trying to explain how you feel to someone, but you’re sobbing and feeling miserable, is that guilting them? am I a bad person am I emotionally abusive or am I just Emotional idk!!! idk when I’m crossing the line and I feel like I’m gonna die